If you are interested in going out with a guy, keep in mind that your guys can get rather confused easily. It makes no difference whether a guy is a freaking genius or a run of the mill football player, he can still get very confused very easily.
As such you may want to consider making things simple for us.
-First of all, if you are interested in her, let her know! We're far less likely to act if we think you interested in us. If you are, let us know, use glances, head movements, fidgets, if we're interested, we'll often be watching for this stuff. (though we are pretty dumb, we might not always pick up on it.)
-If a guy asks you on a date, you've got a pretty clear choice, yes or no! as answer. We'll get to yes in a minute, but if you are going to say NO, that means there’re a few reasons for that; right?
First of all, you’re not interested. If that’s the case, make it clear. After all, if you don't like a guy, do you really want him to keep asking you out? Cause there’s a good chance he will loose unless he knows you don't like him. (we're dumb, it usually takes us a while to figure this stuff out) If you DO like him, but you can't go for some reason, let him know, give your reasons, and ask if you can; maybe do it another time? Or, swear that you are not trying to get out of a date, you just really have to do (insert important activity here) and continue talking to him, if you turn him down for a date, and continue to have a long conversation, he can be pretty certain that you’re interested, just unable to make that date.
-If you don't like something we're doing (something we say, something we do, intimate behaviors) just tell us straight out, OR raise the eyebrows at us and frown, we can usually understand that one.
Just remember, we guys are incredibly STUPID at times, we often have no clue of what were doing, and or sending us subtle clues often just adds to our confusion.
As such you may want to consider making things simple for us.
-First of all, if you are interested in her, let her know! We're far less likely to act if we think you interested in us. If you are, let us know, use glances, head movements, fidgets, if we're interested, we'll often be watching for this stuff. (though we are pretty dumb, we might not always pick up on it.)
-If a guy asks you on a date, you've got a pretty clear choice, yes or no! as answer. We'll get to yes in a minute, but if you are going to say NO, that means there’re a few reasons for that; right?
First of all, you’re not interested. If that’s the case, make it clear. After all, if you don't like a guy, do you really want him to keep asking you out? Cause there’s a good chance he will loose unless he knows you don't like him. (we're dumb, it usually takes us a while to figure this stuff out) If you DO like him, but you can't go for some reason, let him know, give your reasons, and ask if you can; maybe do it another time? Or, swear that you are not trying to get out of a date, you just really have to do (insert important activity here) and continue talking to him, if you turn him down for a date, and continue to have a long conversation, he can be pretty certain that you’re interested, just unable to make that date.
-If you don't like something we're doing (something we say, something we do, intimate behaviors) just tell us straight out, OR raise the eyebrows at us and frown, we can usually understand that one.
Just remember, we guys are incredibly STUPID at times, we often have no clue of what were doing, and or sending us subtle clues often just adds to our confusion.
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